Wedding invitation etiquette for Indian families
When to send, whom to invite to which function, and how digital invites fit traditional expectations.
Updated 2 August 2026
Timing
Often 2–6 weeks before for local guests; earlier for travel.
- ◆Save-the-date earlier if travel-heavy
- ◆Update digital details anytime
Function guest lists
Not everyone is invited to mehendi — and that is okay.
- ◆Use per-function assignments
- ◆Keep reception wider if needed
Common questions
Is digital disrespectful to elders?
No — print a PDF for elders and keep digital for everyone else.
Should colleagues get the full invite?
Often a reception-only or English digital link is enough.